Welcome to the Making Your Home Sing Monday linky party! Every day you are doing something to make your house into a home for yourself and your family (if you have one).
My point with each Monday post is, what are YOU doing or going to do today to make your home sing? It can be an attitude or an action. So have fun, do some blog hopping, and link up! Thanks!
Note: We had 93 linkups last week! You guys are awesomely amazing and amazingly awesome! Don't forget to visit one another and try to leave a comment on at least one blog to encourage someone today! :)
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I have been married for over 30 years now, and I have to say that marriage is "easy" when you're doing it "right" and hard when you're doing it "wrong."
For me, I'm doing it wrong when I am more concerned about my own needs than my husband's.
I am doing it wrong when I am so busy thinking about MY next words that I am not really listening to HIS next words.
I am doing it wrong when I say "I forgive you" with my words but don't show it with my actions.
I am doing it wrong when I say "I forgive you" but am holding onto some rebellion in my heart.
I am doing it wrong when I care more about what's best for me than what's best for him.
I am doing it wrong when I get annoyed because he hasn't done "this" and then I think about how he hasn't done "that" and pretty soon I am purposely looking to see what ELSE he hasn't done.... and my annoyance is now turning into anger.
I am doing it wrong when I don't take his words at face value, and instead look for hidden meanings.
I am doing it wrong when I get angry and blame him over something that's not his fault.
I am doing it wrong when I bring up past "wrongs" in an argument and throw them in his face.
I am doing it wrong when I don't accept that he said "I didn't mean it that way" and insist on believing that he DID mean it that way.
I am doing it wrong when I use tears to manipulate my husband in order to get my way.
I am doing it wrong if I EVER seek to use my children as a weapon against my husband.
I am doing it wrong if I am trying to hurt my husband with my words and my actions, instead of using those words to communicate how I am feeling and what I am thinking.
I am doing it wrong when I am more concerned about "winning" than I am about our marriage.
I am doing it wrong when I begin to put up a wall between my husband and myself, and let bitterness and past hurts strengthen it.
I am doing it wrong when I see marriage as being ME instead of being WE.
I am doing it wrong when I would rather have my own way and be all alone than compromise and be together.
I am doing it wrong if I think my husband has to "earn" my respect before I give it.
I am doing it wrong if I allow anything to choke out my love for my husband.
I am doing it wrong when I do not turn to the Lord for grace, love, strength and wisdom to continue to build my marriage, but instead turn to anyone or anything that will counsel me to care only about myself and encourage me to tear my marriage down.
What are you doing or going to do today to make your home sing? Please go here for instructions and/or ideas and come back here to link up to join us today!
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